"Sex Without Love"

People seem to have a problem tackling a subject such as sex; when it's done, the how, who, why, where ect. However they have no reservation in the subject whenever it's to criticize someone else for their sexual habits. Many of songs, movies, and poems such as "Sex Without Love" have been written about others sexual encounters. I personally don't believe in casual sex but I also feel like sex is a choice like every other we make and however we choose to engage in it should be our prerogative. Olds wonders how one can make love without being in love but where is it written that one must be in love to make love? Most people come to or choose the type of sexual habits they practice based on the experiences that they've had. Some just make love the end result not for an emotional connection.